Say No to Crushes

Just say no to crushes.
Crushes are the relationships where you either refuse to tell the person that you like them or you have told them but they do not like you back.
I used to have crushes all the time. One of my favorite realizations was when I decided to give up crushes for good. I created the “fatal flaw.” The Fatal Flaw is if the person does not like me, then they are not the right person for me. The importance of the fatal flaw is that it eliminates crushes. Also if I am not willing to tell the person, what is the point of torturing myself.
Do not torture yourself. There are plenty people out there in this world that can like you and treat you well. There are many people out there for you. There is not “The One” or “Your Soul Mate” There are many “the ones” and many soul mates. Life is too short to waste it on people who do not want to give you the love that you deserve.
Inspirational Life Coach Brett Dupree (266 Posts)

Internationally certified life coach through inviteCHANGE, Brett Dupree envisions a powerful future in which people live in pure joy. He believes that there is a great transformation just around the corner and he coaches people on how to use passion and inspiration to ride the powerful wave of awakening that is sweeping this world. Brett has dedicated his life to the study of personal empowerment. He believes that real lasting change comes from changing from the inside out. Working with you one-on-one, Brett helps you listen to your inner voice to reach your goals with passion, inspiration and ease . He creates a sacred space that allows you clients to bask in the joy of creation. He will help you find peace and balance in their lives so you can transform yourself into a self leader. Using the power of intentions, the Law of Attraction and his deep loving powerful heart he helps his clients gain miraculous results.


  1. You Make A Good Point Brett, There Are Soooo Many Other Fish In The Sea That Will Appreciate You & ALL You Have To Offer!

  2. We have to full fill body , mind and spirit to be made whole !

    • Bonnie McSpadden on July 13, 2013 at 11:22 am

    Yep – crushes are gross! It’s better to like people who like you back. Thanks for posting!

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