Say No to Crushes
Just say no to crushes.
Crushes are the relationships where you either refuse to tell the person that you like them or you have told them but they do not like you back.
I used to have crushes all the time. One of my favorite realizations was when I decided to give up crushes for good. I created the “fatal flaw.” The Fatal Flaw is if the person does not like me, then they are not the right person for me. The importance of the fatal flaw is that it eliminates crushes. Also if I am not willing to tell the person, what is the point of torturing myself.
Do not torture yourself. There are plenty people out there in this world that can like you and treat you well. There are many people out there for you. There is not “The One” or “Your Soul Mate” There are many “the ones” and many soul mates. Life is too short to waste it on people who do not want to give you the love that you deserve.