Pain happens in life. In fact, one of my favorite quotes is from Princess Bride. “Life is pain princess.”
This might be confusing at first because I am such a positive joy filled person. This blog is so positive and joy filled. Why would I talk about pain?
The answer is simple. Because pain happens. No matter how awesome you are at the Law of Attraction, how clean and joy filled your vibration is, something is going to happen that will hurt you.
To deny your pain will push your pain down deeper. When it comes out it will come out in a huge ball of emotion. Have you ever had a positive experience with a huge pain ball of emotion? Of course not, it generally leads to something you will have to apologize for later.
That is why you need to use pain. Pain can either make you better or pain can make you bitter. It is your choice. You can work through the pain, learn from the pain and create a better life. Or you can deny the pain or resent the situation which caused you pain and create a bitter life. It is your choice.
If you want my advice I would say use the pain to make you better.