Sep 07

Spiritual Life Coach Tip: Improve with Improv

Spiritual Life Coach Tip: Improve with Improv

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Taking Improv classes through Jet City Improv is very beneficial. I am very thankful that I have taken improv classes. I recommend that everyone takes them. You can gain so much from taking improv classes. Before improv classes I was the type of person who the most embarrassing thing that could happen to me is to have someone wave in my direction and I wave back. Then find out that the wave was not meant for me. SO EMBARRASSING!! Improv has allowed me to break out of my shell and let go of embarrassment. Being a fool in front of people was a huge fear of mine. Improv classes is being a fool in front of people for over an hour.

When searching the web I came across a blog, 20 Life Lessons You Can Learn from Improv. I am going to pick out the top five that I really agree with, plus add on that I believe they missed.

 

Bravery: Public speaking and other events involving standing up in front of a crowd is a common pants-wettingly terrifying experience for many people. Enrolling in a low-key improv class makes for an excellent way to start alleviating some of the anxiety. Considering most involve comedy, the presence laughter also serves as a calming agent. Overcoming a comparatively minor fear such as audiences makes for a nice stepping stone to conquering more serious ones.

Taking improv classes increases bravery. To be in front of a crowd and acting like a fool is scary. Especially when having people think you are a fool is one of your biggest fears. Improv definitely helps with bravery.

Self-expression: Spending enough time in the performing or visual arts not only challenges creativity and imagination, but fosters a heightened ability to express one’s emotions and ideas. Whether making a career in the theatre or clinching a client over drinks, the ability to process (and subsequently convey) what’s going on upstairs is an undeniably essential life skill. One does not have to actually perform improv in front of an audience to reap its personal and interpersonal rewards.

You want to learn how to get your voice heard, improv. Improv is amazing at learning to express yourself. You will allow yourself to be the life of a party if you wish. Better yet, you will be able to speak up during a meeting.

 

Cooperation: At some point in everyone’s life, they will have to work with other people. Even ones they just plain don’t like. Most improv involves collaborative efforts to get to a desired destination. The ability to work well with a wide variety of individuals is a necessity in all professional and personal spheres, so even those just taking a weekly class at the learning annex will still get something worthwhile out of the experiences.

You learn that the scene is funnier if everyone works together. There can be chances to take control and go for the big laugh. However, if you cooperate you can create a scene that is so amazing that people will swear that you scripted the scene.

Communication: Communication takes long walks along the beach at sunset with self-expression. They have so much in common; it makes sense that the both of them receive similar bolstering from improv performances and classes. Self-expression allows participants to find an outlet for their feelings. Communication makes sure they get to the intended audience clearly. Awww. Don’t they just make the best couple?

Improv helps you learn how to communicate what is on your mind.

 

Humility: Ditching the ego remains key to getting along well and working successfully with others. For more serious improv artists, they have to face the reality that some audiences just won’t dig their performances. Still others need to make sure everyone on stage (or “stage,” as it were) enjoys their chance to showcase their own talents and ideas. All situations force participants to learn the valuable life lesson of humility and the understanding that sometimes one just needs to sit back and have things not always be about him or her.

Humility is very important in improv as a scene is best when you take what is given to you and use the suggestion in the scene. Learning that your idea isn’t always the best idea can help you go far in life.
Their are 15 more things they learned from improv, however I have two more that I learned.

1. Trust. In improv you have to trust yourself that you are going to come up with the right thing to say. Without that trust your performance will come off very jilted. The important thing to do is to trust the first thing that comes to your mind that will fit the scene. The more you trust yourself in your life the farther you will go. This is the basis of living an inspired life. Trusting the little voice in your head to go for it. The voice of inspiration!

2. Yes and… The basis of improv is, “yes and.” No matter what your partners give you, you accept the suggestion and then build on the suggestion. Imagine living a life where you “yes and” your entire life. You will be free of most of the suffering because you will accept it and build off of the occurrences in your life. “Yes and” is a great representation of self improvement and zen all wrapped into one. In fact it is very enlightening to watch an amazing improv performance. It is like being taken to an amazing world. The high is amazing.

 

Take an improv class. I dare you! Just kidding. About the dare, not about taking an improv class. You will not regret it. Your life will be better because of taking an improv class. If you live in the Seattle Area, I highly recommend Jet City Improv. The two teachers I had there Douglas Willott and Ian Schempp are two of the most talented people I have met. They should be in movies or at least TV commercials.

 

 Spiritual Life Coach Tip: Improve with Improv

Sep 05

Spiritual Enlightenment: The Damndest Thing: Recommendation

Spiritual Enlightenment: The Damnedest Thing: The Recommendation

 

Welcome to Joyous Expansion’s Recommendations. This is not a review because I am not going to write blogs for books I do not like. Therefore, I am only going to be writing recommendations. The recommendation this week is Spiritual Enlightenment: The Damnedest Thing.

 

Spiritual Enlightenment: The Damnedest Thing is a book about an enlightened dude named Jed McKenna who runs a house of enlightenment in Iowa. McKenna is surrounded by a cast of characters that are meant to represent the different aspects of spirituality. He systematically goes through each aspect of spirituality and destroys them. McKenna is not your average enlightened dude. On the surface, he comes off as a huge jerk. Actually if you read deeply you will probably still think of him as a big jerk. He is someone who is enlightened and that is all he cares about. He has little patience for mysticism or false paths to enlightenment. In his reality there is only one way to be enlightened and one way to get there.

 

There are two big reasons I recommend this book. First is because I find it entertaining and it made me think. I enjoyed the way the book is written. I like the tale of McKenna and the messages he had. I enjoyed the things he had to say and the brash way he said it. When I first read this book I got caught up in that aspect of McKenna. I caught myself arguing with the character in the book trying to prove myself smarter than the character. The book stood out to me.

 

If you’re not amazed by how naïve you were yesterday,

you’re standing still.

 

If you’re not terrified of the next step,

your eyes are closed.

 

If you’re standing still and your eyes are closed,

then you’re only dreaming that you’re awake.

 

A caged bird in a boundless sky.

-Jed McKenna

 

You can find the above quote on the right in my random quotes section. What stood out to me was, “If you’re not amazed by how naïve you were yesterday, you’re standing still.” I coupled that with his koan, “further,” I was able to take myself further in my development.

 

If you go to Amazon, you can read some glowing reviews and some very scathing reviews. Both are correct. . I do disagree with one point that the negative reviews kept mentioning. There is a saying, “Before enlightenment you chop wood and carry water, after enlightenment you chop wood and carry water.” I missed the part of the saying that says, “You don’t play video games, go sky diving, and all of the other supposedly unenlightened activities McKenna does.” What a lot of people who hate this book are missing is that the book is meant to make you think.

 

This is the second big reason I recommend this book. It will make you think. The second time I read the book I gained an understanding that the star of the book is me. The parts of the book that make me upset are the parts that I need to examine. The book is good for getting you unstuck as it will show you where you are stuck. It will challenge your ideas and if you take the book to heart you will think for yourself. A person can read this book and turn it into a bible, however that isn’t the point. Learn from it and move on. Go back if you feel you need another spiritual enema. McKenna is just a finger pointing at the moon. If you ask someone for directions and he gives them to you in a tone you do not like, do you yell at him for being a jerk?

 

No one knows if McKenna exists or not. Some people think he is Adyashanti. If I had to choose from all the people I have read I would choose Richard Bandler. If Richard Bandler was enlightened, I believe this is how he would act. This is potentially a very powerful book and it wouldn’t surprise me if the writer had a great knowledge of NLP.

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I recommend this book to anyone who feels a little stuck in their spiritual path or is willing to challenge it. If you want to stay on your path without question, then this book is not for you. You will read it and yell at it and put it down. However, if you are looking for a book to challenge who you are, then this is the book for you.

 

 

 Spiritual Enlightenment: The Damndest Thing: Recommendation

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