Apr 10

From Spiritual to Inspiration

For the longest time I called myself a Spiritual Life Coach. I have removed spirit from my title because people are not good at reading my mind. More accurately, spiritual, in the sense that I mean it, does not convey the idea that I would like it to convey. When I use spirit, I am using it in the since, of from within. In spirit, inspiration. It would have helped me if spirit was spelled spirat, then the word play would make more sense.

It has come to my attention over the years that spiritual gets a lot of things through people’s head that I am not

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Transformation (Photo credit: Jen R)

trying. Like Reiki, crystals, meditation, Christianity, and many other ideas that I am not talking about. There is nothing wrong with any of those, and I would happily coach you to use them to make your life better.

When I talk about spirit, I am talking about using your emotions, and your inner self, personal intelligence, to create the changes that you want in your life.

Wherever I mention “the Universe” or “spirit”, put in your personal belief on spirit. The purpose of this blog is not to change your spiritual beliefs. The purpose of this blog is to inspire you, allow you to keep on being inspired, and then use your passion to change your life.

 

 From Spiritual to Inspiration

Apr 09

Guest Blog – Are you a Giraffe?

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A giraffe in South Africa (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

 

Are you a Giraffe?

What if someone came up to you and said, “Hey!  You’re a giraffe!”  I bet you’d look at them strangely or think that you mis-heard them.  ”Umm, excuse me.  Did you just say I was a giraffe?”  Why would you be confused by their statement.  Well, because you are NOT a giraffe!  It is just that simple.  Nothing about you can make you a giraffe and I’m sorry but you are not going to change into a giraffe in your lifetime.  No, it’s not happening.

There is a point to this.  I promise.

Know who you are.  Know it before any one ‘tells you’ who you are.  Know that you are smart, beautiful, awesome because YOU declared it to yourself.  That way when someone says it to you it’s nothing new to you.  It’s a recording that had been going on in your head.  It’s not personal.  It’s not even a compliment.  It’s a reality, a fact, a statement of truth.  You cannot argue truth.  On the flip side, the only reason it hurts when someone says to us, “You’re fat.  You’re ugly.  You’re not wanted.  You’re not good enough” is because that inner dialogue has been going on in our own heads.  Their statements only matched what we were hoping no one else was hearing in our own heads.
 But is it your truth?  Are you really those things? Are you a giraffe?  Figure out who you are and declare it!  You are whatever you say you are (I’m quoting the great, Eminem, “I am whatever I say I am and if I wasn’t then why would I say I am”…good point, MM, thanks).  So when someone declares something that you are not, “Hey, giraffe!” your only reasonable response would be to look at them with disbelief and say, “Excuse me?  What did you say?”  And it wouldn’t hurt it because you would KNOW that you are NOT a giraffe.  You simply were not.

 

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Jessica Gentry – Infinite Possibilities Trainer

 

 

 

 

 

 

Jessica Gentry is a fellow Infinite Possibilities trainer.

 Guest Blog   Are you a Giraffe?

Apr 08

3 Things I have learned from Crossfit

3 Things I have learned from Crossfit

It was a cold February morning, as I cautiously walked into a big poorly lite warehouse. I was nervous, because on that day was going to be my first crossfit workout. I was going to find out if the horror stories were true. As I start with the joint articulations, which feel as funny as I look right now, the fear was mounting. It wasn’t too long until I was done with the warmup. I was pooped. I could have gone home right then working out harder than I have in months, but no, I still had the main workout. The workout was 3 rounds, 21 reps, 15 reps and then 9 reps. Each round had three exercises. Burpees, which have nothing to do with burping. Kettle bells, which you put a kettle bell between your legs, thrust your hips to put it up above your head. Just like making love and lunges.

 

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Day 143/September 6 – Kettle Bells #2 (Photo credit: John Piekos)

I told the coach that there was no way I could do 21. He had faith in me as he looked me square in the eye and said, “ You can do 21.” Feeling pumped and using the power of his faith in me, I began the workout. I did 21 burpees. I started to feel confident as I complete 21 kettle bells. Then finally with the 21 lunges, I proved me right. As I sat down asking if he could get me water, with him telling me where the water was, which my thought in my head was, “If I could go get water right now, I would.” Soon I was asking wondering to myself, which would happen first, “am I going to puke or pass out?” That was the first time in my life where I experienced my vision getting darker. I paid good money for that experience.

 

I have kept with crossfit since then, which means I have be sore for 5 months. Not only have I gotten in better shape since then, crossfit has reinforced some amazing life lessons, which I am going to share three of them with you right now.

 

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Sumo style kettle bell (Photo credit: bionicteaching)

Since I have started crossfit, I am in much better shape. I feel better about myself and my body thanks me. I would

not feel this good right now if I did not start on that cold February morning.

Lesson 1! To reach a goal, you have to start.  The journey of 1,000 miles begins with the first step. I had all the excuses not to start. I was so out of shape that walking three hilly Seattle blocks would tire me out, I was going to miss two weeks due to Lasik Surgery and it is pricey. However, I started and today I am very happy that I did. The best way to never reach your goal is to not start. Put down the excuses and start today. Soon enough, you will be an amazing speaker.

 

As I said, when I started crossfit, I was winded after walking three blocks. One of the benefits of crossfit is being surrounded by supportive people. Some of them have been crossfitters for years and in much better shape than I was.

Lesson 2! You are, where you are. A great man once said, “I yam, what a yam.” When I started crossfit, workouts that took on average of 20 minutes, would take me 40. I reminded myself constantly, all I can do is my best. Just like in Toastmasters. You do not have to be as good of a speaker as anyone on the stage. The purpose is your own personal improvement. It doesn’t matter if you aren’t as good as the people you admire. What matters is, you are only as good as you are right now, and that bar will improve each time you practice. It will not be too long until you are one of the people, that people think, “Why can’t I be as good as you?”

 

While I was improving in crossfit, there was this day about 3 months in where I was smiling after the first 400 meter run. I do not like running for obvious reasons, but this time I was all smiles. I just jogged a full 400 meters without stopping. Well, slowly plodded, however totally worth celebrating.

Lesson 3! Celebrate your accomplishments. Give yourself a pat on the back right now. You could be reading anything but you are reading a self improvement blog. Celebrate that fact.  In crossfit, I celebrate when I can push myself harder, finish a full workout, finish a workout in a good time, and even when I wake up early to go to the crossfit. I have not seen this quote associated with anyone else, so I decided I have coined it.

When you celebrate the little things in life, life is one big celebration.

-Brett Dupree

When you read one of my blogs, celebrate. When you read a book, such as Power to Change, celebrate. When you reach a small goal, celebrate. When you take a step towards the next goal, celebrate. Be sure to celebrate every one of your accomplishments, big or small. You deserve it.

 

Crossfit, lhas changed my life for the better. There are many more life lessons that I reenforce with every workout. Today I shared the three most important, You will never reach your goals if you do not start, You are where you are and celebrate your freaking life. To keep yourself full of energy and motivation I invite you to look at the life lessons you gain with every life changing process.

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