Worry is a huge waste of time. Worry does you no good. All it does is hurt you, while it does nothing to help the person that you are worrying about.
Worry is different than concern. Worry and concern might start with the same intention, it is a much different action. When you concerned, and you do nothing about it, then concern turns into worry.
Worry is thinking the something bad is going to happen over and over and over again. A coward dies a thousand deaths, and every time you worry, you are creating a scenario where what you worry about has happened.
If you have concern, do something about it, even if all you can do is send good vibrations or prayer. Then you have to let it go and trust that the best is going to happen. If the worst is going to happen, let the worst happen once.
Listen to my podcast 7 and you will know that I have been going through a breakdown and a breakthrough. The most interesting part is while listening to Abraham, a being channeled by Esther Hicks, I received the answe
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r I needed. You can read the video below.
Where your desire is really, really strong, but your life experience is having you to have real strong experience about it. It gives you not advantage at all, for us to say, what you should have done, before you did that was this because, you can’t go back to do before you did this….
Almost everyone knows what it is like to get a hold of something that is unpleasant and try to fix the unpleasantness other. This is wrong, so I will do this. This is wrong, so I will do this. This is wrong, so I will do this. This is wrong, so I will do this. But at some point you have to turn that cycle around, because its just going to just becoming more and more and more and more, because your emotional grid is becoming more and more and more.
Every time you tell that story, and we do not blame you for wanting to fill in the details of it, It feels to most people, that you cannot get a solution, unless you lay out clearly what the problem is you are living with. The thing we want you to understand is that every single second you spend telling the story of what you don’t want, no matter accurate it is, and it is, no matter unfair it is and it is, no matter unjust it is, no matter how ridiculous it is, no matter how much you don’t want it, every minute you are telling the story, you are shoring that vibrational grid.
Your grids are really current. They are happening, now, now, now. Your point of attraction is now. You can be in this big mess, because of your focus on that grid. The moment that you stop keeping that grid active and start activating another grid, then that grid will start filling in.
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This really hit home for me because I created a story. A story that was pretty accurate to me. However the more I told that story, the more I would focus on that story, the more I would suffer. This message has helped me let go of telling the story of what I do not want and focus on what I do want. Even though I am a teacher of this work, sometimes even I need help. It is wonderful that there are many amazing teachers out there that can help in times of need.
I am focusing on what I want and I am going to move towards my desires.
There is a saying, it is better to give than to receive.
I do not think that saying is true. Mostly because receiving in itself is one of the best gifts you can give to someone. Think about it. When you give someone a gift and they do not receive it, does it feel good? If they tell you, “no, no, no, no.” Now think about how it feels like when you give someone a gift and they feel excited. They love the fact that you just gave them that gift.
Doesn’t giving feel better when the person who receives accepts your gift with joy? Then why would it
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be a good thing to not receive? Why would you deny someone that amazing feeling?
Receiving with gratitude is just as good as giving with gratitude. In fact, receiving is one of the ultimate gifts that you can give someone.
When I made the decision to become a joyous person, I decided that I would be a person who receives all gifts. With a thank you. And that has allowed me to grow so much. All I do is just say “Thank you,” from the bottom of my heart. It feels so good to give that person that gift of my receiving. Since I have done that I have received much more than gifts.
If you believe in the Law of Attraction then receiving or allowing is one of the most important parts in the Law of Attraction. If you cannot receive with joy the gifts from your friends, how can you receive the gifts from the Universe?
With love and joy in your heart, receive. It is just as good, if not better, than giving.