Do not act out of fear. Act out of love. Then you will a life with minimal regrets
One of my personal goals in life is to minimize my regrets. I have noticed that every time I act out of fear, I end up doing something I regret. Not counting times when fear gave me the energy to run away from a bear type situation. That doesn’t happen very often.
By fear, I mean the fear based emotions. Anger, sadness, fear, revenge, worry, and the other fear based emotions. Most times, especially when I am with someone that I love and I act out of fear, I regret that decision.
I have had a situation that happened recently that displayed to me the importance of acting out of love. When someone I loved hurt my feelings I was triggered and I acted out of fear. Unfortunately I ended up hurting the person back. That is not how I want to be. That is not how I want to act. I am a being of love and my goal is to be a being of pure love.
It is important to act out of love and not act out of fear. I am not saying it is easy. When you feel those fear based emotions, feel through them. As you work through them, calm yourself down to get to a point where you can think rationally and connect to your higher purpose.
When that happens, then you can act. When you live your life this way, you will minimize regret.